I was thinking about on which topic i will write next after publishing last article, on 12th april'13 friday i had decided to go to Jamnagar-My hometown at night via bus. I got the last seat and there was a lady besides me age around 50-60.
As usual i was listening songs on my mobile, suddenly she starts speaking as i was busy with my mobile, i m not going to write all conversation but the highlight was like this."હૂ અહીની છુ, અહી જાવ છુ, આ કામથી, આટલા દિવસ, સૂ કામ જાવ છુ કોને ત્યા જાવ છુ તેને બધુ જ કહી દીધુ ફક્ત ઍક જ મિનિટ મા" but the strange thing is "I could not listen all the words spoken by her as i was listening songs suddenly i came to know that she was saying something to me but that lady was speaking continuously and we can say that
"બૉલ બૉલ કરવુ તે તેમના નેચર મા છૅ પણ આટલૂ કે તેમનુ ધ્યાન પણ ના હતુ કે હુ સોંગ સાંભાડુ છુ અને મને કહે તમે અરવીંદભાઇ ને તો ઓડખતા જ હસો મે કીધુ ના હૂ બરોડા મા 2 મહીના થી જ છુ તો કહે બાકી અરવીંદભાઇ ને તો આખુ ગામ ઓડખે તે મારા સગા થાય તે પાછા મામલતદાર રહ્યા ને અને નાના છોકરા ને પૂછોને કે અરવીંદભાઇ કોણ તો પણ તમને કહી દે" I WAS SPEECHLESS "હૂ વિચારતો રહી ગ્યો કે સુ કહુ." મારાથી પણ રહેવાનુ નઈ મે પુછયુ અત્યારે પણ મામલતદાર છે બરોડા મા ? "
"તો કહે ના ના હવે તો નથી રહ્યા પણ તમારે કાઇ કામ હોય તો કહેજો તે કરી આપ્સે આખુ બરોડા તેમને ઓડખે છે મે કીધુ સારુ " (મને નામ પણ પુછયુ ન હતુ અને નંબર પણ તો કામ પડે તો પુછુ કોને ?)
We can't do anything... At that time i had decided to write on woman..
One of the famous author mentioned that i can write on any topic but can't write on woman..although i want to give a try on this..i know its gonna be tough for me..hardest topic ever to write or discuss even girls are agreed on this :-P
All About Her :
They are mostly of caring nature,
More possessive and all are jealous,
Crazy about songs,music and dance,
All girls like chocolates uhhhh I Love Dairymilk..most of the girls like dairymilk too much(તેમા પણ કોઇક ને સિલ્ક , ક્રૅકલ , ફ્રૂટ ઍન્ડ નટ , ટેંપ્ટેશન) તેમા પણ કોઈ ગર્લ ને સિલ્ક ભાવતી હોય ને ક્રૅકલ દીધી ભૂલથી પણ તો ગયા પછી ભલે ને તમે પહેલેથી પુછયુ હોય કે તને કઈ ચૉક્લેટ ગમે ઍન્ડ તેનો જવાબ હસે મને તો બધી ડેરિમિલ્ક ભાવે,
Jealousy is the instinctive quality of girls,
They tend to keep their secrets within themselves BUT Updates their secrets on Facebook(you all know about this) ,
They like shopping and gossing about others,
Shopping બાપરે..once upon a time in Pune i was going for shopping with my friend in mall she spent almost 2 hour to choose a clothes at the end i got the response like "यहासे नई लेना हे इससे अच्छा और सस्ता तो मेरे घर के पास मिलता हे" बाद मे मूज़े पूछा "तुजे कुछ पसंद आया क्या ??" क्या बोलू यार मे ?
They seek attention from others, Apart from all these they are most resitive femina on the earth,
Most cute as sisters, Most affable as daughters, Loving as a girlfriend/wife, Adorable as daughters and laws , Caring and tensed as mothers.
You will get hundreds of miss calls if you will not receive your special one's call... :-P
I have observed that when two girls are crossing roads they hold their hands i was thinking y y y ?? then i asked my friend and i got the ans like this
There are two possibilities here first one is either the girl is afraid of crossing ya she holds hand of person besides her cz she know that , the person wnt let her face any problem and so holding his hand she can safely cross the road
About Pani Puri : oh my god...પાણી પુરી નુ નામ લઇ અને તેમના ચહેરા પર સ્માઇલ આવે કાય તમે જોતા રહી જાવ..
Clothes : બધુ વસ્તુ મૅચિંગ જોઇઍ..
Like : કપડા આ કલર ના તો સૅંડલ આ જ જોઇઍ , લિપસ્ટિક , ઇયર રિંગ્સ , બ્રેસ્લેટ , બધુ મૅચિંગ જે જોઇઍ જો ના હોય તો બીજી ગર્લ્સ પાસે માગી લે પણ પહેરે તો મૅચિંગ જે અને જો ના મળે કાઇ મૅચિંગ તો થીમ ચેંજ... :-P
They want to be HEADLINES in all channels...(Got it ??)
It is hard to describe the reaction of a girl when you appreciate some other girl in front of her,
Girls are very demanding and stubborn and if their demands are not fulfilled they get irritated easily,
They always worried about their looks and figure... :-P
Always fascinated about diamond,
A Girl's mind is like a seesaw --- so weavering,
Don't know why all girls think of them as KAREENA because they generally don't eat much at restaurant with only thing in mind 'to maintain figure',
Sometimes i feel God has rigged nature in favor of girls because we generally never win against a girl in a bet,
To elaborate, i set a bet with a girl as to prove that GHAJINI is a better movie compared to RAB NE.. till the date i still don't understand whether RAB NE.. was actually better aur it was her skill which proved me wrong... :-P
The major problem in girls life is that her boy friend's life is running smoothly without any problem,
They are too emotional "Take care boys while chit chatting",
They are fan of film stars specially Sahid and Ranbir they are always dreaming to meet them and take a photo with him and want to say I Love You when you are chatting with any girl and ask who is your favorite hero ans will be (You better know..). All Girls Are Same (No Offense... :-P)
They always want boys come to her and propose, girl never expresses her feelings first by words,
They are too shy..( લજ્જા તો સ્ત્રી નુ ઘરેણુ કહેવાય),
Each girl has one friend , one close friend , one best friend + one boy friend.
Each girl wants Boy friend (!!) because her best friend has a bf so she feel jealousy (Fact but rare case) but every girl wants BF that is fact,
તે પોતાની સીક્રેટ વાત કઇક આવી રીતે શેર કરે "જો હુ તને ઍક વાત છુ કોઇને કહેતી નહી તો જ કહુ તેમ કહીને કહી દેસે અને પછી બીજી ફ્રેંડ ને પણ આવુ જે કહેશે અને પછી તો... સમજી જાઓ"
પછી પૂછસે બધા ને આ વાત બધા ને કેમ ખબર પડી ગઈ મે તો ખાલી તને જ કીધુ હતુ ???
When a Girl Becomes Girl Friend You can imagine her happiness on that day...may be that day would be one of the memorable day of her life because she fall in love for the first time she would definitely told her close friend about him..
They are always interested in other girls' secret.
Even their rough book of class are like research paper of any journals...
You will get to see types of bulletins in a girls book that you wont even find in a Microsoft Office,
I would like to share one secret of girls they kiss each other..(No Offense..)
They always wear such cloths such that she looks beautiful among all girls specially in parties..
નામ મા પણ મહેંદી કરે બોલો
When a boy/man is looking at a girl/woman in a appreciative manner by default conclusion that the girl draws out is that the boy is trying to flirt,
Girlfriend's expectation's are too high.. (ઍટલા હાઈ કે તેને ખુદ ને પણ ના ખબર હોય) they want der bf to give all der tym to her, always work should be done according to her irrespective of bf's wishes and desire, girl friend wants that bf should be of her only, girl friend think that boy friend should be such that they should always make their girl friend feel so special and she wishes that when boy friend comes to meet her bring with him Red Rose and a one and only Dairymilk for her, they are much caring , when girl friend is in good mood she shower all her love on boy friend, when girl calls to her special one i mean boyfriend and if by mistake she will listen "your call is on wait "
then be ready for little fight "with whom you are talking and why at this time i have told you earlier that you must receive my call first then why ??" they always expects gifts from bf...
They always have a question in her mind my bf is loyal to me ??
But when a girl becomes a woman :
Mainly Changes in their maturity level, they stop doing nonsense and start thinking for all her family rather then "I ME MYSELF", it turns to "WE US", She forgets her wishes and tend to fulfill her family dreams.
For this article my friend helped me a lot...special thanx to her and roomies also...thanx.. :-).
But seriously man she is the only one who takes care of family, always worried about her family, she will leave her whole life as her husband says..hats off to her..if she is not happy in her husband's house she will never say to her parents.
She is the only one who can express her feelings face to face. Boys can't..
There is always a reason behind her tear..But problem is that we can't understand .
If you have sister you might have feel that how much she loves you and how much she cares for you, Don't let your sister to cry. Fulfill her desires and wishes because she will leave her own house one day give make her happy.
વિદાય ના આશુ તેના માટે સહુથી કઠીન હોય છે કેમ કે તે પોતાનુ બધુ જ ત્યાગ કરીને પતિ ના ઘરે જાય છે તેનુ નામ પણ પોતાનુ નથી રહેતુ અને તેને પોતાની માને ઘેર જવુ હોય તો પણ સાસૂમા ને પુછવુ પડે છે.
You will never understand woman even they are agree with this.
Girls are very demanding and stubborn and if their demands are not fulfilled they get irritated easily,
They always worried about their looks and figure... :-P
Always fascinated about diamond,
A Girl's mind is like a seesaw --- so weavering,
Don't know why all girls think of them as KAREENA because they generally don't eat much at restaurant with only thing in mind 'to maintain figure',
Sometimes i feel God has rigged nature in favor of girls because we generally never win against a girl in a bet,
To elaborate, i set a bet with a girl as to prove that GHAJINI is a better movie compared to RAB NE.. till the date i still don't understand whether RAB NE.. was actually better aur it was her skill which proved me wrong... :-P
The major problem in girls life is that her boy friend's life is running smoothly without any problem,
They are too emotional "Take care boys while chit chatting",
They are fan of film stars specially Sahid and Ranbir they are always dreaming to meet them and take a photo with him and want to say I Love You when you are chatting with any girl and ask who is your favorite hero ans will be (You better know..). All Girls Are Same (No Offense... :-P)
They always want boys come to her and propose, girl never expresses her feelings first by words,
They are too shy..( લજ્જા તો સ્ત્રી નુ ઘરેણુ કહેવાય),
Each girl has one friend , one close friend , one best friend + one boy friend.
Each girl wants Boy friend (!!) because her best friend has a bf so she feel jealousy (Fact but rare case) but every girl wants BF that is fact,
તે પોતાની સીક્રેટ વાત કઇક આવી રીતે શેર કરે "જો હુ તને ઍક વાત છુ કોઇને કહેતી નહી તો જ કહુ તેમ કહીને કહી દેસે અને પછી બીજી ફ્રેંડ ને પણ આવુ જે કહેશે અને પછી તો... સમજી જાઓ"
પછી પૂછસે બધા ને આ વાત બધા ને કેમ ખબર પડી ગઈ મે તો ખાલી તને જ કીધુ હતુ ???
When a Girl Becomes Girl Friend You can imagine her happiness on that day...may be that day would be one of the memorable day of her life because she fall in love for the first time she would definitely told her close friend about him..
They are always interested in other girls' secret.
Even their rough book of class are like research paper of any journals...
You will get to see types of bulletins in a girls book that you wont even find in a Microsoft Office,
I would like to share one secret of girls they kiss each other..(No Offense..)
They always wear such cloths such that she looks beautiful among all girls specially in parties..
નામ મા પણ મહેંદી કરે બોલો
When a boy/man is looking at a girl/woman in a appreciative manner by default conclusion that the girl draws out is that the boy is trying to flirt,
Girlfriend's expectation's are too high.. (ઍટલા હાઈ કે તેને ખુદ ને પણ ના ખબર હોય) they want der bf to give all der tym to her, always work should be done according to her irrespective of bf's wishes and desire, girl friend wants that bf should be of her only, girl friend think that boy friend should be such that they should always make their girl friend feel so special and she wishes that when boy friend comes to meet her bring with him Red Rose and a one and only Dairymilk for her, they are much caring , when girl friend is in good mood she shower all her love on boy friend, when girl calls to her special one i mean boyfriend and if by mistake she will listen "your call is on wait "
then be ready for little fight "with whom you are talking and why at this time i have told you earlier that you must receive my call first then why ??" they always expects gifts from bf...
They always have a question in her mind my bf is loyal to me ??
But when a girl becomes a woman :
Mainly Changes in their maturity level, they stop doing nonsense and start thinking for all her family rather then "I ME MYSELF", it turns to "WE US", She forgets her wishes and tend to fulfill her family dreams.
For this article my friend helped me a lot...special thanx to her and roomies also...thanx.. :-).
But seriously man she is the only one who takes care of family, always worried about her family, she will leave her whole life as her husband says..hats off to her..if she is not happy in her husband's house she will never say to her parents.
She is the only one who can express her feelings face to face. Boys can't..
There is always a reason behind her tear..But problem is that we can't understand .
If you have sister you might have feel that how much she loves you and how much she cares for you, Don't let your sister to cry. Fulfill her desires and wishes because she will leave her own house one day give make her happy.
વિદાય ના આશુ તેના માટે સહુથી કઠીન હોય છે કેમ કે તે પોતાનુ બધુ જ ત્યાગ કરીને પતિ ના ઘરે જાય છે તેનુ નામ પણ પોતાનુ નથી રહેતુ અને તેને પોતાની માને ઘેર જવુ હોય તો પણ સાસૂમા ને પુછવુ પડે છે.
You will never understand woman even they are agree with this.
Article to article..you are growing up..keep it up pavlesh..kumar....
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